A new service for the UK When SPA was set-up in December 2008 there were no face-to-face support groups and self-help groups for straight partners in the UK - a situation that contrasts rather sharply with the USA.
SPA offers a face-to-face support group with monthly meetings and an online group, both of which are free. Janice also supports people via email; you can contact her here. SPA members Each member has a different story to tell, and by telling our stories, we support each other. Some members have personally experienced isolation and fear when their partner came out. Some members may still be living with a partner who is in denial, whilst others may have reached a mutual decision with their partner to keep their relationship intact. Some members have divorced and moved on. The point is, there is no definitive right or wrong way to manage this situation.
Whatever your circumstances or story, feeling isolated compounds your shock and will make the recovery process that much longer and more difficult. Janice can personally vouch for that! None of the members are 'experts' in the field as such, but we offer support and empathy.
Monthly meetings SPA's founder Janice lives in Leicestershire and our monthly meetings will, by necessity, be within a 50 mile radius. There is also the possibility of a support group in Nottinghamshire or Derbyshire. Please contact Janice for information or visit the events page here.
Sometimes straight partners just need to get out of the house and meet with like-minded people, to talk without fear of being judged. Therefore, social outings may be planned in the future. Contact Janice for details or view the events page here.
Guest speakers In publicising the group, Janice is in contact with many people and organisations that are very enthusiastic about our aims and objectives. Therefore, she may invite guest speakers to the meetings from time to time. Please check the events page regularly for updates.